High-functioning OCD: when your compulsions look like strengths
Rereading every email, overpreparing for every meeting, thinking a decision through one more time. In high-functioning OCD, the compulsions are often the parts of you other people praise.
"Do you still love me?" When reassurance in a relationship is actually OCD
If the reassurance never holds for long, no matter how good it is, the problem may not be your communication. It may be OCD, and the relationship has been recruited to feed it.