Anxiety Therapy for Women

Online therapy for women navigating anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and the constant pressure to keep everything under control. You might be good at handling things. You get things done. People depend on you. You think ahead. You notice what could go wrong. You hold yourself to a high standard. The problem is that your mind rarely lets you rest. You replay conversations. Anticipate problems that haven't happened. Revisit decisions you've already made. Feel responsible for getting everything right. Maybe you know you're overthinking and still can't seem to stop. Sometimes anxiety looks like worry. Sometimes it looks like perfectionism, irritability, procrastination, over-preparing, avoiding decisions, or needing everything to feel just right before you can move on.

When anxiety starts taking your time

Anxiety isn't only uncomfortable. It can be expensive in ways that don't show up on a bill. Hours spent worrying. Decisions that take far too long. Sleep interrupted by your brain running through tomorrow. Conversations replayed after they are already over. You may be functioning. You may even be functioning very well. But you're spending far more energy than you want to spend doing it.

Sometimes anxiety is not actually the whole story

Anxiety can be part of several different clinical pictures.

Sometimes it's generalized anxiety. Sometimes it's perfectionism and chronic self-pressure. Sometimes ADHD has created years of overwhelm and compensating. Sometimes intrusive thoughts and reassurance seeking are actually OCD.

Understanding what is driving the anxiety matters because the treatment should match the problem.

I won't assume every anxious thought needs to be challenged or every uncomfortable feeling needs to be calmed down.

How I work with anxiety

We'll start by understanding what your anxiety is actually doing. What are you afraid might happen? What do you do when that fear shows up? What are you avoiding, checking, controlling, or overthinking? And what is all of that costing you? From there, treatment might draw from CBT, ACT, DBT skills, or ERP depending on what's actually happening. The work is collaborative and direct. I'll give you space to get comfortable and understand what's going on before we start asking you to do things differently.

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Before you reach out

Therapy isn't about becoming someone who never feels anxious.

It's about getting your time and energy back from anxiety so it doesn't get to make every decision for you.